Last month, I was honored to be one of 120 "agents of change" - along with the likes of Eckhart Tolle and His Holiness the Dalai Lama - at the Vancouver Peace Summit 2009 in Vancouver, Canada. Imagine being in an arena with thousands of people (including a whopping 16,000 youth) looking for positive, peaceful change for an evolving planet. As I write this, I am just completing with the conference, and I'm on cloud 9, wanting to share some important words from His Holiness the Dalai Lama. His major message was about combining compassion, intellect and action in order to bring peace to our world. I have always maintained that good decisions come when we combine the mind with the heart and the soul. The mind is an analytical faculty and helps us determine logic. The heart is where emotions reside and it is important to feel that our decisions and actions feel good. The soul is where inspiration lives, so it is important that our decisions and actions are inspiring. Such a combination is similar to the Dalai Lama's notions. COMPASSIONATE HEART As the Dalai Lama said, we all have the seed of compassion in our hearts. Many of us are blessed to have mothers who gave such a love - with deep compassion. Though that seed can be thought of as a gift from our mothers, we all have to essentially build and nurture such a seed for a compassionate world. The feminine power, often attributed to the nurturing women of the world, needs to take a more leading role in this century, whereas our previous century was more focused on technology and warring. Through the practice of meditation and forgiveness, our present and future focus must be on peace, demilitarization and nonviolence. We need to look at a world without boundaries, within living systems that promote a stance of "we" and not "I." I've often seen how this philosophy helps my life. By practicing forgiveness daily and embracing a compassionate heart, I have become calmer, more peaceful and, at the same time, I have experienced more physical vitality! A KEEN INTELLECT Though compassion is key, the Dalai Lama also noted the importance of a keen intellect. Let us not take for granted our ability to investigate, ponder, and ask the important questions. We've been given a mind for a reason. Use it to do inquiry into the outer realities as well as the inner world. We can use our intellect to problem solve, yet do so with a compassionate heart that includes the good of all. And once we have an answer in mind, we can apply it to all... with direct action. DIRECT ACTION The Dalai Lama noted the importance of taking action in our society. It's not enough to simply be with the heart. There must be expression. It's not how you feel about another person; it's how you treat them. There are practical ways to make a difference in the world. It's important to engage in doing some service to make it a better world. For example, though I forgave Tony for murdering my son Tariq, I still took the action in starting a foundation that would teach other children of non-violent principles. And each of us has our ways of turning a healed heart and mind into actions of change for a better world. To be an agent of change, it will take change on a few levels. So that you may be in a place... ... with a compassionate heart ... with a keen intellect ... taking actions that make a difference... ­­­